Why Don't We Change? The Two Core Reasons We Stay Stuck (And How to Break Free)

The Inevitable Shift: Why True Transformation is Never Optional

We understand that profound change isn't a mere aspiration; it's an inevitable outcome when we truly align with the forces that govern our inner world. We’ve all stood at the precipice of desired change, feeling the tug-of-war between the familiar and the unknown. Why do some leap into new realities while others remain stuck, orbiting the same old patterns? The answer lies not in willpower alone, but in a deeper understanding of our internal allegiances.

blogZac GandaraMay 13, 2025BreakBox Coachingpurpose, love, mission, evolution, transformation, alignment

Why Advocates Who Embrace Their Shadows Create Lasting Change

An advocate who hasn’t done shadow work is dangerous to society, but an advocate who has faced their shadow will bring a profound, healing force to the world. Advocacy without self-awareness is perilous; it allows unchecked biases, unresolved traumas, and blind spots to drive one’s actions. When a person steps into a role of influence without having explored their shadow, they risk projecting their own internal conflicts onto the very issues they seek to address. This can lead to division, rigidity, and even harm, as they are more likely to act from a place of fear, control, or ego.

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